So, in my reading I discovered that it's important to comment. Well, I suppose I knew that it was important all along, but, I have gotten out of the habit because I was tired of being attacked for having an opinion. So, now, as I scroll through my Facebook page, I mostly just like things I agree with and keep my opinion to myself. When someone says something about something I post, though... well, it's fair game then. After all, it is my page. I try to keep it civil, of course, and, when it gets out of hand, I step in. I have rules of decorum and have sometimes had to act as something of a moderator. But, for the most part, my news feed and notifications are pretty quiet these days.
But, one of the topics in the reading was about how commenting helps create a stronger sense of community. I remember a few years ago when I lived in Texarkana, I felt alone. Back then, the only way I had to stay in contact with my friends was through Myspace. When I would post a blog and someone commented on it, I realized that I really wasn't that far away from home. All I had to do was get on Myspace and there I was.
One thing that was mentioned about commenting in Cool Cat Teacher's blog was the always present Darth Commenter. The Blue Skunk Blog actually called it "being a troll." Cool Cat Teacher said, basically, not to let one person with a bad attitude get you down. Just because they want to be a jerk doesn't mean that you have to let it get to you. She also said that when dealing with these "Darth Commenters" that the best thing to do is to merely reflect on why you're blogging. It is a good exercise in figuring out who you are and staring in the face of adversity and either setting the record straight or backing down.
I liked the 10 Techniques to Get More Comments. I think my favorite suggestion was to leave posts open ended. I have a tendency of making things definite and unwavering. Sure they sometimes get a lot of likes, but, likes don't actually mean much in such a wide world of opinions. But, at the same time, some of the things I would talk about end up becoming heated arguments assuming any comments are left (mostly politics in case you were wondering).
The final part of of this assignment was... (drum roll) COMMENTING ON BLOGS!!! I found this part to be more interesting than I initially thought it would be. I found one blog about a woman's weight loss journey called
Fashionably Late. It's called Fashionably Late because she got started very late in life with exercise and weight loss. I chose this particular blog because I, too, have struggled with my weight all my life, and, it's nice to know that there is someone out there that has the same thoughts and feelings about it as I do. One thing she said was that she realized that happiness is a choice. I know that it may sound absurd to say that, but, it's true. We are faced with choices every day that we must live with for the rest of our lives. We can either be happy with them or not. If we aren't happy with them, we fix them. If we are happy with them, we leave them be.
The second blog I found was one about another passion of mine which I only acquired a couple years ago during my time at Columbia State: philosophy. The post I chose to comment on was titled "
To Thine Own Self Be " The main idea of this post was that there is no such thing as an unauthentic self. The author argued that even people that act in a scripted way are acting in an authentic way because they are still themselves. They did not become a different person. They are merely playing a role, and that someone that may act one way in public and another in private has no alternate persona.They are just authentically acting as a different person. I disagreed starting with a quote from H. Jackson Brown Jr. which stated “Our character is what we do when we think no one is looking." From there I inferred that, by his logic, " In the case of those who commit suicide or commit mass murder, many
times they are only described as seeming outwardly happy, or keeping to
themselves...", "if people only act one way and there is no unauthentic self, then, we
can infer that all people that are happy or that keep to themselves are
very likely to commit suicide or mass murder. In reality, many people
are very outgoing and happy and never commit such atrocities. On the
other end of the spectrum, many people are perfectly content with
keeping to themselves..."
Next I found several blogs that were about the 23 things themselves. I wanted to stick with blog posts that were about things that I have already done or was in the process of doing. So, first I found
Hayley Carney: Thing 3. She talked about blogs are a great way of keeping parents involved with their child's learning and teacher's education process. As I was reading I began to think that if the parents remain involved on such a level as she talked about, it could, potentially, do away with the need for parent teacher conferences because all issues can be addressed in real time rather than waiting a couple months to have the meeting and than waiting another couple months for the results.
Next I commented on
Valerie McAllister: Thing 1. She said that she has the most trouble viewing problems as challenges and that it's a challenge in itself to not view problems as problems. I told her that it sounded like she was on the right track because she had already identified her first challenge. I also told her that it also could be a contextual problem because some use their solutions to problems to define them where as others use the experience in overcoming a challenge to define them.
The third group member blog I came across was
Alena Glassford: Thing 2. She talked about how excited she was that she was being given a chance to pick up blogging again and how difficult it was for her to set up her new blog because of how much had changed since she had last done it. She also talked about how hard it was to close out all of her old blogs. I felt compelled to contrast our individual experiences and tell her that I wasn't excited at all to begin with, but, now, it's really not so bad. I also told her that I felt the same way she did when I closed out my blogs but solved the problem by copying and pasting them into a word document so that I could revisit them whenever I needed to.
I then commented on
Desirae Sheppard: Thing 4. As I mentioned before, I have always struggled with my weight. Well, it just so happens that my girlfriend has too. When I went to Desirea's blog, I didn't find anything about weight loss, but, she DID mention that she loves to run. I have been trying to help my girlfriend stay motivated keep going to the gym even though the benefits are not immediate. Given that Desirea is a highly motivated runner and a female, I sought her advice on how she stays motivated as a woman to keep going to the gym or the track. Staying motivated as a male is different, I think, because men see results faster than women. So, I can use all the help I can get as far as helping my girlfriend stay on track.
The last blog I found was
Rachel Burkhart: Thing 3. I actually sought out Rachel's blog because of Desirea's blog. She mentioned that she thought Rachel made a good point about students spending a lot of time on the internet and how students open up easier online than they do in person. So the use of blogs makes sense. Needless to say, I was concerned because there was nothing in her post about the possible dangers of opening up online and shutting down in person. I went to Rachel's blog and was discouraged to find that she hadn't mentioned those dangers either. I took it upon myself to point out that "...using blogs is a good starting point to increase student involvement..." but "...it will be our responsibility as educators to ensure that our students understand that they aren't just talking to a computer or a cell phone."
In conclusion, I realized that commenting is important is many different ways. It's important to constructively point out mistakes or omissions. And, it's equally as important to re-enforce the position of the thoughts that are worth re-enforcing so that they may take root in your minds and make their way to our hearts and allow for the maximum amount of growth possible so that we can all reach our potential as one race: a HUMAN race.